You know, when people ask me how I got into aquascaping, I tell them it started with my granddaughter’s obsession with Finding Nemo and ended up being the best accidental therapy I never knew I needed. After thirty-two years as an ER nurse in Minneapolis – dealing with everything from heart attacks to overdoses to elderly folks who’d taken bad falls – retirement hit me like a truck. Suddenly I had all this time and absolutely no idea what to do with myself.
My granddaughter was eight then, completely obsessed with that little clownfish movie, and she asked if I could set up a fish tank at my house so she’d have something fun to look at during visits. Seemed simple enough, right? How hard could it be to keep a few fish alive? Well, turns out saltwater aquariums are incredibly difficult to maintain, which I learned the hard way after losing several expensive fish and dealing with constant water quality issues for about six months.
My husband finally suggested trying freshwater instead, said he’d read somewhere that planted tanks were more forgiving. I was skeptical but figured I’d already spent the money on equipment, might as well give it another shot. That’s when I discovered this whole world of aquascaping I hadn’t known existed – people creating these underwater gardens that looked like miniature versions of real landscapes, complete with rolling hills and forests and everything.
The first time I saw a proper nature aquarium online, I just stared at my computer screen for probably twenty minutes. It looked like something out of a fantasy movie, with lush green plants arranged to look like tiny hills and valleys, pieces of driftwood positioned just right to look like fallen trees, and this misty background that made the whole thing seem magical. That’s when it hit me – aquariums didn’t have to just house fish. They could be living art pieces.
Now, I’m not gonna lie, aquascaping seemed pretty intimidating at first. I mean, I’d spent my career dealing with medical emergencies, but creating something beautiful instead of just trying to keep people alive? That was completely different territory. But once I started understanding the basic principles and different styles, it became this incredible outlet that I never expected to find.
The thing about aquascaping is there are all these different approaches you can take, each with its own charm and rules. Nature aquariums try to recreate natural landscapes in miniature – think rolling hills, peaceful forests, quiet rivers. The key is balance and making everything look like it naturally belongs together. My first successful nature aquarium was inspired by this quiet forest scene I remembered from a camping trip years ago, and watching that little underwater world come to life was more satisfying than I’d imagined.
Then there’s Iwagumi, which is this Japanese minimalist style that’s all about rock placement. You have one main rock called the “Oyaishi” that serves as your focal point, and then you arrange smaller rocks around it to create this sense of harmony and tranquility. I attempted an Iwagumi tank about a year into my aquascaping journey, and let me tell you, it taught me that patience is everything and sometimes simple really is better. Just a few carefully placed stones can turn an ordinary aquarium into something that looks like a Zen garden.
Dutch aquariums are the complete opposite – they’re all about cramming as many different plant species as possible into the space, creating these incredibly dense, colorful displays. It’s like painting with plants, making sure each species plays its part in the overall composition. My first Dutch-style tank was this ambitious project where I tried to use about fifteen different plant varieties. Some worked beautifully together, others… well, let’s just say I learned a lot about which plants actually complement each other.
And then there’s jungle style, which basically throws all the rules out the window. You let plants grow wild and uncontrolled, creating this dense mass of foliage that looks completely natural and untamed. My jungle tank became my little escape – looking at it was like taking a mental vacation to some tropical paradise, which was exactly what I needed after all those years of hospital stress.
Understanding the golden ratio helped me figure out how to arrange things in a way that was naturally pleasing to look at. It’s basically this mathematical principle that shows up everywhere in nature, and you can use it to position your rocks and driftwood and plants so that the viewer’s eye naturally flows through your underwater landscape in an appealing way.
The hardscape – that’s your rocks and driftwood and other structural elements – has to go in before you do anything else. It’s like the skeleton that everything else builds on. I remember spending literally hours moving rocks around in my first serious aquascape, trying to get the arrangement just right. My husband thought I’d lost my mind, crouched there rearranging the same three pieces of stone for the twentieth time, but getting that foundation perfect is crucial.
Plant selection turned out to be way more complicated than I’d expected. You need to think about color, texture, how fast things grow, and whether they’ll actually thrive in your particular setup. I learned to use foreground plants, mid-ground plants, and background plants to create depth, just like you would in a regular garden. Each plant species has its own personality and requirements, and figuring out how they all work together is like solving this living puzzle.
Proper lighting is absolutely critical – without it, your plants won’t photosynthesize properly and everything will start looking sad and brown. I went through several different lighting setups before finding what worked for my tanks, and let me tell you, good aquarium lights are not cheap. But the difference between adequate lighting and great lighting is night and day in terms of plant growth and color.
Maintenance is where my nursing background actually came in handy. Just like monitoring patients, you have to stay on top of water parameters, watch for early signs of problems, maintain consistent routines. Weekly water changes, regular pruning, testing pH and nutrient levels – it’s all about keeping that delicate ecosystem balanced. My first major algae outbreak taught me the hard way about balancing light and nutrients, but it was a valuable lesson in understanding how all these factors interact.
When I finally got brave enough to try CO2 injection, it was like watching my tanks come alive. Plants that had been struggling suddenly took off, colors became more vibrant, growth rates increased dramatically. I’d been intimidated by the whole CO2 setup process, thinking it was too technical, but it really wasn’t that complicated once I got over my initial hesitation.
The substrate system – what you put on the bottom of your tank for plants to root in – became another area of experimentation. I tried different commercial substrates, organic potting soil under sand caps, various nutrient-rich mixtures. Each approach had pros and cons, and I probably spent way more money than necessary testing different options.
Creating a proper carpet of small plants requires incredible patience. My first successful carpet was with Dwarf Baby Tears, these tiny little plants that spread slowly to form a lush green covering. Planting them individually with tweezers was tedious work, and maintaining the carpet took constant attention, but when it finally filled in completely, it was absolutely worth the effort.
Water chemistry turned out to be more important than I’d realized. Regular testing and adjustment became part of my weekly routine, and understanding how different parameters affect plant growth helped me troubleshoot problems before they became serious. A good filtration system isn’t just about keeping water clear – it’s about maintaining a stable environment where everything can thrive.
I draw inspiration from everywhere now. Travel photos become potential aquascape layouts. Art museums give me ideas about composition and color balance. Even architecture influences how I think about creating depth and visual interest in my tanks. The aquascaping community online has been incredibly helpful too – sharing experiences, learning from other people’s mistakes, celebrating successes together.
Not everything I’ve tried has worked out. I’ve battled algae outbreaks that turned beautiful tanks into green messes. I’ve lost expensive plants to diseases I didn’t catch early enough. I’ve attempted ambitious layouts that were beyond my skill level and ended up looking chaotic instead of natural. But every failure taught me something valuable, and the learning process has been as rewarding as the successes.
Each small victory feels significant – the first time a difficult plant species finally started growing, achieving the perfect balance in a challenging layout, successfully propagating rare plants to share with other hobbyists. These accomplishments might seem minor to outsiders, but for those of us deep into this hobby, they represent real achievements.
Aquascaping has become more than just a retirement activity for me. It’s artistic expression, stress relief, ongoing education, and connection to a community of like-minded people all rolled into one. Every tank represents a new project to work on at my own pace, with no emergency pressure, no life-or-death stakes – just the peaceful process of creating and maintaining something beautiful and alive.
Whether you’re completely new to this or already have some experience, remember that every tank is its own journey. Embrace the learning process, don’t be afraid to experiment, and most importantly, enjoy creating your own little underwater worlds. For me, aquascaping isn’t just about making pretty tanks – it’s about finding peace, expressing creativity, and proving that retirement can open doors to passions you never knew you had.
A retired ER nurse, Elena found peace in aquascaping’s slow, steady rhythm. Her tanks are quiet therapy—living art after years of chaos. She writes about learning, patience, and finding calm through caring for small, beautiful ecosystems.




